I've met Wendy several times and she was always very cordial, an accomplished horseperson, attractive, and does entertaining interviews. I have no idea who her boyfriend is, and besides there have been many spouses unaware of the creep they were married to- give her a break. Most of you probably slept with a chick that you wouldn't want your buddies to know about. As for the cheating in racing, it's one thing to be aware of it and another to be able to prove it in a court of law! It costs a shitload of money and you better be able to prove it-you won't get a second chance.